I feel similar to what
suzie30I said below:
I have a lot of acquaintances but no real friends except my boyfriend. However everyone condsiders me to be very nice.
I have just found in life that most people are not genuine. Most people define friends as someone they can use to boost their social life. They are not genuinely interested in your welfare. Its just the type of modern society we live in. It focuses on the individual. People nowadays don't really have the time to form meaningful friendships. So most people's friendships are superficial. Alot of people that are nice but have no friends , have no friends because they seek meaningful relationships.
I also do have things about my personal life that I don't wish to speak about. Things that when I tell people they are shocked or don't understand and therefore make ignorant hurtful comments. Alot of people go through life assuming that most people they meet have a relatively normal life. A lot of people have very serious problems in their life that are so painful it hurts and makes them introverted. They become introverted because they think no one will really understand their situation. Also in many social situations alot of so-called friends make hurtful ignorant comments without realising that they might be hurting one of their own friends around them.
True friends in life are just hard to find.
